compositor: Add an API to query if the stage is focused

gnome-shell needs to know whether the stage window is focused so
it can synchronize between stage window focus and Clutter key actor
focus. Track all X windows, even those without MetaWindows, when
tracking the focus window, and add a compositor-level API to determine
when the stage is focused.

https://bugzilla.gnome.org/show_bug.cgi?id=700735