Add _g_io_module_get_default(), use to simplify other *_get_default()s

Add _g_io_module_get_default(), which implements the
figure-out-the-best-available-module-that-is-actually-usable logic,
and use that to simplify g_proxy_resolver_get_default(),
g_settings_backend_get_default(), g_tls_backend_get_default(), and
g_vfs_get_default().

https://bugzilla.gnome.org/show_bug.cgi?id=620932