Add api to get the primary monitor of the screen

We don't actually use the full xrandr to get the primary monitor, we
just rely on the xrandr xinerama compat code to return the primary
monitor first. This lets us avoid adding unnecessary xrandr code and
avoids issues with _NET_WM_FULLSCREEN_MONITORS monitor indexes being
defined wrt xinerama monitor index order.

https://bugzilla.gnome.org/show_bug.cgi?id=609258